The world doesn’t know the love of God. The natural man lives in a reaction. Are you a new man? If so, Jesus will fill you. When someone does evil against you, it is a concealed opportunity for you.
Every situation is an opportunity to fill that love from you into others. If you do, you express the kingdom of God, and will benefit you. (Lk 6:27-28, 31-36, Mt 5:11-12)